Jangan jadikan dakwah "Escapisme"

"Dalam persoalan study dan tarbiyah ini adalah:...............................
1) Perlu kenal kekuatan dan kelemahan dalam study kita.- Kita kene jujur pada diri sendiri.kene jujur!tak boleh comparekan diri kita dengan orang lain.Lain orang, lain pace study dia. Lain kemampuan menguasai bahan dan hafalan.Maka kita kene tanya pada diri kita sendiri, kemampuan kita bagaimana.Ada orang boleh study 3 jam je sehari. Dia mampu excell dalam study dia. Orang seperti ini kene gunakan sebahagian masanya yang lain untuk dakwah dan tarbiyah.Ada orang memang perlukan 10 jam untuk belajar sehari, maka dia memang kene belajar 10 jam. Dan terpaksa kurangkan masa dakwah dan tarbiyah dia.ada orang boleh belajar last minute.2 minggu sebelum exam, memang dia stop pergi semua program yang ada, dan pulun study.Ada orang kene belajar berterusan.So dia still mampu pergi usrah dan daurah walaupun dah dekat sangat nak exam. Sebab dia dah banyak revise sebelum itu.Terpulang pada diri kita. Kita perlu kenal kekuatan kita.

2) Perlu ada jadual belajar dan dakwah serentak

3) Tahu kekuatan study andaAda orang kene study dalam group. So dia kena cari study group untuk belajar.ada orang kene baca kuat-kuat, maka dia kenalah duduk belajar sorang-sorang. Nanti orang lain terganggu dengan suara dia.So kene kenal style study anda.Gunakan segala pancaindera dalam study. Gunakan mata, telinga dan mulut.Ada benda kene baca, ada benda kene tengok gambar, ada benda kene dengar dan ada benda kene bercakap. Barulah dapat masuk dan faham apa yang kita belajar itu.

4) Jangan jadikan dakwah escapisme.Ini amat berbahaya.Ada antara kita yang bila stress sangat study, berpaling kepada dakwah sebagai escapisme. Berharap Allah akan membantu dia sebab dia dah membantu kerja Allah.Benda ini salah!Sebab takkan berjaya sesuatu perkara tanpa usaha. Kejayaan takkan datang dengan magis. Walaupun betul terkadang Allah memang membantu hambaNya yang benar-benar tawakal kepadaNya.Tapi kita still kene belajar. Kalau terlalu stress, cepat-cepat jumpa akhawat lain. Curahkan masalah kepada naqibah ataupun pada hosmet ke.Tapi jangan simpan sorang-sorang, dan jangan jadikan dakwah sebagai escapisme.Nanti dakwah terfitnah kerana kita.

5) Lepas kamu dah habis satu urusan, buatlah urusan yang lain pula.Lepas kamu dah belajar gila-gila. DAh berkorban perasaan sebab dah lama tak pergi program sebab nak study. Dah penat terperap dalam bilik, maka, KELUARLAH kamu berterbangan untuk menyampaikan kalimah Allah ini. Keluarlah untuk mengejar tarbiyah kamu semula.Buatlah dakwah gila-gila.Baru rasa nikmat pengorbanan sebab study kita itu.Seminit lepas keluar dari dewan peperiksaan, boleh fikirkan agenda dakwah dan tarbiyah. kan best tu!

6) Stay fokusUntuk masa sekarang, sesiapa yang akan ada exam, fokus pada exam. Setelah itu kita fokus dakwah pulak.Susah nak tumpu dua benda dalam satu masa unless dua-dua otak kamu boleh berjalan serentak.Bila fokus, kita akan menghasilkan impak yang besar pada usaha kita. Kita takkan mencapahAmacam?
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sgt tertarik! we have to know our own potentials.. n sye rse, drpd pengalaman sye di atas, kite perlu taw juge gaye study mad'u2 kite n their potentials.. mcm sorg tu, die btul2 kne fokus blaja on weekends, n mseh x mmpu nk bg mse lame2 utk usrah.. jd ble 2 jam, die ok, ble 4jam, ade mse die lari..berkait dgn picnic pule, iA, pndpt sye, tnye diorg, adekah terbeban dahulu.. sbb klu bleyh, xmo diorg pg tpkse demi kita, kn?
Allahualam..

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Salam wbt,

Sangt susah nak explain apa yang telah berlaku this couple of 4 months in Moscow. Dengan kejutan bom, exam pharmaco ana yang still tak boleh di settle settlekan lagi. Hinggakan ana hampir loose hope in Allah. Selalu timbul dalam hati ini ragu-ragu. Astaghfirullah hal azim. Sungguh berat ujianMu ya Allah.

Nak mintak maaf kat semua sisters if i have been out in the blue lately. Hati ini sungguh nak cuba untuk tsabat. Tapi syaitan tu yang asik duk cakap. Tak Tak Tak. Menghiasi futur ana pun ada.

Ya Allah berilah ku kekuatan!.

Amin.

What have we sacrificed for this Deen?

Assalamualaikum wbt,

My naqibah asked me that question during our regular daily usrah gatherings. To my opinion..yes i have actually sacrifecd quite allot of things for this Deen. I sacrificed my old friends, i sacrificed my old clothes, i sacrificed my old time favourite music i used to listen to, i sacrificed my wants and needs only for this dawah.

Only Allah knows how much sacrifice that took me. How much psychological damaging and brain-washing process i had to go through..for i was not like this before. I was a totally different person before.Many who never got to know me before tarbiyyah may not have known what kind of transition i had to go through. Maybe some of you new people in tarbiyyah may have thought Kak Sal was the Kak Sal now. Well you'll be shocked to know because the old me was not a preety sight i might say.

If you ask me was it hard to change?
My answer is yes!

If you ask me was it all worth it?
My answer is yes! Definitly. Although it was a painstaking process.

If you ask me what was the best thing i learnt through out this whole journey?
My answer is that you are able to put your whole trust in Allah that He will guide you through and through and that to learn that everything that happens has a reason behind it no matter how wrong you may look at it.

What is the biggest lesson learnt?
The biggest lesson i learnt is that only Allah knows what is best for me, not my parents, not my friends, not my schoolmate, not my teacher and not even myself. So if you want to ask something, ask from Allah. I you want to seek help, seek help from Allah. Know that if the nation were to gather together to benefit you with anything, it will only benefit you with something that Allah has already prescribed for you and if the nation were to gather together to harm you with anything, it will only harm you with something that Allah has already prescribed for you.


Anyways I'm still trying to improve,trying to better my self. I hope i can find more things i can sacrifice. Hopefully Allah swt will continue to guide us all in this life. Peace out sisters.

=)
Uhibbuki Fillah.

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train trip c ikwahom(with ikhwah)

bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

salam alaykum..huhu.interesting title ay?

here's the story behind it:

today i went to class as usual.on d metro(train) i realized i was with an ikhwah n a non-ikhwah.we went into d same wagon n i tried to get as far as i could frm them.n when i thought i was far enough from them i start to relax.suddenly the train reached the next station,and as usual the pushing started.i was pushed to the center of the wagon.when i turned to my left (there was a free space-which is very rare in the morning trains), i saw ikhwah A there.uh oh i thought.that crushed my hopes to get more comfy.i tried as hard as i can not to even brush a bit of his coat.i tried as hard as i could until we get to the next station.at this sttion a a really big guy came in between us.'PHEW!',i thought.i felt relievd.at that moment i felt that there's something wrong with the way i reactd to that situation.double standard?oh YEAH..then pushing startd again as people struggled to get out..i was left with my thoughts...

we have d feeling MALU only with ikhwahs.which is so wrong.everyday we ter'touch', ter'push', ter'hug' russian men..n we dont even think twice.(pardon d language).when there's an empty seat available we dont try to see weather beside it is a guy or a girl.we dont think,we just do.in other words we are desensitizing ourselves with ikhtilat.n our double standardness rises higher each n evryday.we are getting more 'MALU' with ikhwahs by d day, n more 'TAK MALU' with evryone else.

i'm telling myself before anyone else iAllah

let's change for the better iAllah with Allah's guidance.ameen

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alhamdulillah.alhamdulillah..alhamdulillah..

in the midst of tiredness and fatigue Allah gives me the strength n will to write something here.:)alhamdulillah..Allah is SO SWEET.

hmm..nape ek sy pnat?nape ek sy mention sy pnat?kecoh btol org lain pon pnat kan?hmm..sbb tu la intro sy nak ckp arini sy masuk W.A.R.bg sesiapa yg xtaw W.A.R is women amazing race.so die ala2 amazing race tp yg best nye girls only^^ weeee..

ble ckp pasal race kan so mstilah ade lari2 kan.tp yg special nye W.A.R ni kat moscow where escalators are 2 storey high at its best.so kitorg lari la naik turun tangga tu..alhamdulillah la tgga yg bergerak..kalo tak mau ade pengsan kat tgh2 metro tu..huhu..

korg taw x escltor plg tinggi kitorg pnjt?kat kievskaya..kalo dlu sy naik sorg2 msti sy gayat.tu la btp tinggi nye die.n yg tinggi jugak dkat univesitet,sportivnaya n barikad..

yg nak citer kat cni sbnrnye..ble da nak abis race tu..kne naik escltor universitet.(tinggi)tapi sbb da naik turun naik turun dan naik dan turun lagi banyak2 kali...sy rse mcm xdelah tinggi sgt pon ha universitet ni...

n terlintas kat dalam hati sy ...kalo la kite ni x diuji dgn prkr2 yg besar n hebat mesti kite akan rse bnde2 kecik yg kite hadapi tu sgtla besar n hebat.pdahal x pon.so lain kali bile rse beratnyeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ujian aku ni...reflect dri balik..btul ke berat n hebat n high ujian aku ni?ke aku je yg ngengade..manjakan dri lebih2.n kalo btul bnde tu sgt2 besar maka bersyukur lah sbb Allah tgh mentarbiyah kite.iA ble da slalu panjat escalator kiev kite akan rse barikad,universitet dan sewaktu dgnnye tu xde lah setinggi mne..wallahualam

(CREDITS TO ALLAH)